The first of the year is a great time for reflection on big questions. What am I doing? What am I here for? What is my purpose? What is my life about?In our culture today, one struggle we have in answering that question is a basic American assumption. We assume we have the absolute freedom to do more or less of whatever we want and thereby choose what our lives are about. First of all, that scenario is exhausting. We believe we have an infinite number of choices, so we are exhausted by the searc…