On October 17, 2020, I led a graveside service at 10 am for a man who died too soon. He was in his 40s. At 11:45 police arrived at our house with news about our son, who had just died too sooner. He was 20. It was a sunny day. The morning was crisp and just cool enough for blankets at the graveside. By the time I got home, things were warming up for a perfect fall day! My wife, Jeni, had been to the Farmer’s Market and had just texted that she was in the checkout line at Stein Mart, having sc……