John Gills Exposition of the Bible Commentary - Proverbs 19:11
The discretion of a man deferreth his anger ,.... That he does not show it immediately; but takes time to consider of the offence given him, and makes use of a proper time to resent what is fit should be resented; he is a wise and discreet man that is slow to anger, Proverbs 14:29 . He is most like to God, who is "longsuffering, abundant in goodness and truth", Exodus 34:6 ; and it is to the honour of his "name" that he "defers his anger", and "refrains from" cutting off those that... read more
Matthew Henry's Complete Commentary - Proverbs 19:11
A wise man will observe these two rules about his anger: 1. Not to be over-hasty in his resentments: Discretion teaches us to defer our anger, to defer the admission of it till we have thoroughly considered all the merits of the provocation, seen them in a true light and weighed them in a just balance; and then to defer the prosecution of it till there be no danger of running into any indecencies. Plato said to his servant, ?I would beat thee, but that I am angry.? Give it time, and it will... read more