The Pulpit Commentary - Psalms 35:14
I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother. In every such case I sympathized with the sufferer to such an extent, that my conduct was like that of an intimate friend or a brother. I bowed down heavily, as one that mournsth for his mother. Nay, I went further; I took on all those outward signs of grief which are usual when a man has lost his mother. I "bowed down heavily," as though I could scarcely stand. The Orientals are extreme and exaggerated in their manifestations... read more
The Pulpit Commentary - Psalms 35:13
But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth . It is suggested that David had acted thus, especially in the case of Saul, when he was first afflicted with his terrible malady ( 1 Samuel 16:14-23 ; 1 Samuel 18:10 ); but he appears to speak of his habitual practice, whenever any of his friends were sick. (On the putting on of sackcloth as a sign of grief, see Genesis 37:34 ; 2 Samuel 3:31 ; 2 Samuel 21:10 ; 1 Kings 21:27 ; 2 Kings 6:30 ; 2 Kings 19:1 ; ... read more