John Gills Exposition of the Bible Commentary - Genesis 38:14
And she put her widow's garments off from her ,.... By which it appears that in those times and countries it was usual for widows to have a different apparel from others, especially in the time of their mourning, as it has been since in other nations, and with us at this day, and which is commonly called "the widow's weed": and covered herself with a veil, and wrapped herself ; in it, or in a cloak, or some such like garment, which the Arabs now call "hykes"; this she did that she might... read more
John Gills Exposition of the Bible Commentary - Genesis 38:13
And it was told Tamar ,.... By some of her neighbours, or by some of Judah's family: saying, behold, thy father in law goeth up to Timnath to shear his sheep ; which might be told her as an indifferent thing, without any design in it; but she took notice of it, and it gave her an opportunity she wanted. read more