The Pulpit Commentary - Ephesians 5:4
Warning against unbecoming speech. "Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks." I. THERE ARE THREE VARIETIES OF UNEDIFYING SPEECH . 1. "Filthiness." This term, though referring to acts as much as words, points especially to that obscenity of speech which is so disgusting to the moral sense of man. It is proof of a corrupt heart—for "out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh"—and, more than... read more
The Pulpit Commentary - Ephesians 5:4
And filthiness ; αἰσχρότης , implying that such things are disgraceful, ugly, revolting, the opposite of καλός , fair, comely, attractive. And foolish talking or jesting, which are not becoming. This would be well understood in sensual, frivolous Ephesus; a light, bantering, jesting kind of talk, seasoned with double entendres and obscene allusions, very pernicious in its moral effect. There is no reason to suppose that the apostle meant to condemn all play of humor, which is a... read more