Genesis 32:13-21

Though he hoped for God’s help, Jacob did not fail to do all he could to appease his brother (Genesis 32:13-15). He offered his magnanimous gifts diplomatically to pacify his offended brother.

"As the narrative unfolds, however, it was not Jacob’s plan that succeeded but his prayer. When he met with Esau, he found that Esau had had a change of heart. Running to meet Jacob, Esau embraced and kissed him and wept (Genesis 33:4). All of Jacob’s plans and schemes had come to naught. In spite of them all, God had prepared Jacob’s way." [Note: Sailhamer, "Genesis," p. 209.]

Jacob’s ability to give Esau 580 animals proves that God had made him enormously wealthy.

"Jacob’s behavioral response was classically narcissistic." [Note: Shepperson, p. 183.]

In view of God’s promises believers can pray with confidence for His deliverance and do not need to give away His provisions to appease their enemies.