Albert Barnes' Notes on the Whole Bible - Colossians 3:21
Fathers, provoke not ... - Notes, Ephesians 6:4.Lest they be discouraged - Lest, by your continually finding fault with them, they should lose all courage, and despair of ever pleasing you. There is much sound sense and practical wisdom in this observation of the apostle. Children should not be flattered, but they should be encouraged. They should not be so praised as to make them vain and proud, but they should be commended when they do well. The desire of praise should not be the principle... read more
The Pulpit Commentary - Colossians 3:21
The duties of fathers. "Fathers, provoke not your children, lest they be discouraged." I. THE DUTY OR PARENTS . It is here exhibited on its negative side. They are not to abuse their authority over their children by too great severity either in words or deeds. Some parents spoil their children by indulgence; others, by unwise severities. Bitter words are used, unreasonable commands are given, immoderate correction is administered. Parents are to behave lovingly to their... read more