Grace Gems for MAY 2005
All the fickleness, sinfulness, and unworthiness
(Octavius Winslow, "The Divine Attributes Entwining
Around the Tempted and Trembling Believer")
"I am the Lord, and I do not change. That is
why you descendants of Jacob are not already
completely destroyed." Malachi 3:6
The believer may change, but his covenant God
never alters. The believer's feelings may vary, but
his Father's love never veers. God loved him from
all eternity, and that love extends to all eternity.
As God never loved His child for anything He saw,
or would see, in that child—so His love never
changes for all the fickleness, sinfulness, and
unworthiness, He daily and hourly discovers.
O where would the soul fly but for this truth?
When it takes into account the sins, the follies,
the departures, the flaws of but one week; yes,
when it reviews the history of but one day, and
sees enough sin in a thought to sink it to eternal
and just perdition! But for an unchangeable God,
to what consolation would it resort?
"I have loved you, My people, with an everlasting
love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to
Myself." Jeremiah 31:3
A few feet of earth will suffice
(J. C. Ryle, "Our Souls!")
"For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the
whole world, and lose his own soul? Or what shall
a man give in exchange for his soul?" Mark 8:36-37
Nothing in the present life can make up for the loss
of the soul. You may have all the riches of the world
—all the gold of Australia and of California—all the
honors which your country can bestow upon you. You
may be the owner of half a continent. You may be one
whom kings delight to honor, and nations gaze upon
with admiration. But all this time, if you are losing
your soul, you are a poor man in the sight of God!
Your honors are but for a few years. Your riches must
be left at last. Naked you came into the world, and
naked you must go out. Of all your money or broad
acres, you will carry nothing with you when you die!
A few feet of earth will suffice to cover that body of
yours when life is over! And then, if your soul is lost,
you will find yourself a pauper to all eternity! Truly it
shall profit a man nothing to gain the whole world, if
he loses his own soul.
The value of all things will change greatly one day.
The hour comes when money shall be worth no more
than waste paper; and gold and diamonds shall be as
the dust of the streets—when the palace of the noble,
and the cottage of the peasant shall both alike fall to
the ground. In that hour you will find out, in a way you
never found out before—the value of your immortal soul.
Soul-loss will then be seen to be the greatest of losses,
and soul-gain the greatest of gains!
Pointing or leading?
(John Angell James, 1785—1859)
Children have their eyes always upon their parents,
and are quick to discern any violations of consistency.
If they see us as worldly-minded, as grasping and
anxious after riches, as solicitous to be surrounded
by splendid furniture, luxurious gratifications, and
fashionable habits, as the people of the world—if
they see us deceitful, implacable, or malicious—what
can they conclude but that our religion is mere sham?
In such a case, of how little service is our attempt
to impress upon their minds, those claims which we
ourselves 'practically' deny? It were far better for some
parents to say nothing to their children about religion,
for until they alter their own conduct, their admonitions
can produce no other effect than to excite disgust!
It is enough to make every parent tremble—to think
what a parent should be! Without a godly example,
everything else that we do is most lamentably deficient!
As has been often said, it is only pointing them the
way to heaven—but leading them in the way to hell!
They slay their own children!
(J. A. James, "To Young Mothers")
A mother should never forget that those little engaging
creatures which play about the room so gaily and so
innocently, with all the unconsciousness of childhood, are
young immortals—beings destined to eternity—creatures
placed on earth on probation for heaven—and that much
will depend upon her, whether the everlasting ages shall
be spent by them in torment—or in bliss!
This is an overwhelming thought!
All should realize the sublime idea that . . .
their houses are the schools for eternity;
their children the scholars;
themselves the teachers; and
evangelical religion the lesson.
Those parents who neglect the religious education
of their children, whatever else they may impart,
are more guilty than Herod!
He slew the children of others,
they slay their own children!
He slew only the body,
they slay the soul!
He slew them by hired assassins,
they slay their children themselves!
We shudder at the cruelties of those who sacrificed
their babes to Moloch. But how much more dreadful
an immolation do they practice, who offer up their
sons and daughters to Satan, by neglecting the
education of their souls, and leaving them to grow
up in ignorance of God and their eternal destiny!
Mothers! Your religion, if it is genuine, will teach you
at once the greatness of the work, and your own
insufficiency to perform it aright in your own strength.
Your business is to train immortal beings for God,
heaven, and eternity!
The domestic slave
(J. A. James, "Female Piety—The Young Woman's
Guide Through Life to Immortality")
There are various kinds of slavery in the world, and
many classes of victims of this cruel bondage. There is
among others, the domestic slave, whose tyrant is her
husband—and the scene of her bondage, her home!
His stinginess allows her scanty supplies for bare
necessities. His selfishness is so engrossing and exacting,
that his demands for his own personal ease and indulgence
are incessant, and leave her no time for the consideration
of her own comfort. His disposition is so bad, that all her
diligence to please are unavailing to give him satisfaction,
or to avert the sallies of his irritability, discontent, and
complaints.
When such a man protests against Negro-slavery, let him
begin the work of emancipation at home, by raising the
oppressed woman he holds in bondage there, from the
condition of a drudge—into the station of a wife!
But there are also many sad cases in which the slavery is
self-imposed! The bondage comes from the wife herself!
The husband would gladly release her—but she will not
let him!
Some are slaves to neatness—and make their fidgety
anxiety about this matter a misery to themselves and
all around them!
Others are slaves to fashion—and are always anxious
and troubled about elegance and refinement!
Others are slaves to domestic display, parties and
amusements—and are always full of anxiety about
making a splendid appearance!
Others are slaves to frugality—and are ever vexing
themselves to economize!
In these ways women will torment themselves and fill
their minds with unnecessary cares and self-imposed
troubles! To all such we say, "Martha, Martha, you are
anxious and troubled about so many things!"
A hideous skeleton!
A collection of bones!
A heap of dust!
(J. A. James, "Female Piety—The Young Woman's
Guide Through Life to Immortality")
"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty
that depends on fancy hairstyles, expensive
jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should be
known for the beauty that comes from within,
the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit,
which is so precious to God." 1 Peter 3:3-4
How exquisitely is this put! How impressive the ideas
which are conveyed! It is the decoration of the soul
rather than of the body, about which Christian women
should be chiefly solicitous and concerned.
The soul is indestructible and immortal—so should its
ornaments be. What can jewels of silver or jewels of
gold do for the soul?
Can the diamond sparkle upon the intellect?
Or the ruby blaze upon the heart?
Or the pearl be set in the conscience?
Or the gorgeous robe clothe the character?
Or the flower wave over the holy nature?
No! The appropriate ornaments of the soul are truth,
holiness, knowledge, faith, hope, love, joy, humility;