The is much confusion in the world and in the Church about what true love is. Jesus said to love one another in the same way that He loved us. The idea of romantic destiny or a soul mate is flawed human philosophy that leads to broken relationships. The feel good love that only allows for nice things, prevents people facing the truth of the gospel.
Progressive Christianity is not Christianity but another distortion of Jesus teachings. Rob Bells, 'love wins', is dangerous and misleading.