A chapter by chapter, verse by verse study of the book of Proverbs.
This chapter starts with feminine wisdom. She is a home maker, a house builder. This is one of the most important things a woman can do, is to build your house. To be that home maker. The one who cares for the family. The one who nurturers the children. You make the home something special and sacred. That is your priority,
If she is not building her house, she is neglecting her house and destroying her house. This is in addition to what, her lips or mouth will do. You know, good homes just don't happen. They are something that takes effort, and a wise woman is going to diligently build her home, she is going to work at her home, she is going to try to overcome the trials, she is going to try and strengthen her house and build it up. In Proverbs 31 we will read more about this wise woman. A home has seldom been wrecked while a virtuous woman remained in it. Proverbs has a lot to say about the wise woman and the foolish woman in the home.
I think there is a second point that is more than just a wife, mom, or homemaker. I think, this scripture applies to all women, no matter your marital status or if you have children or not. This verse speaks to more than just taking care of a home.  It’s about the fact that all women have been entrusted with resources, experience, and knowledge. They have the choice to use those things wisely to build up, or to foolishly choose to tear down.  A wise woman has the discernment to know which actions, thoughts, and words will build and which will destroy and she chooses accordingly.  The woman of a home has tremendous power to make it a better or worse place.