Matthew 6:14-15

Answering the mail today: “What does forgiveness (acceptance) look like when your adulterous spouse or ex-spouse is unrepentant? (I’m speaking of this as a person divorced from a cheating ex-wife who never admitted the affair was wrong or asked for my forgiveness.. We have […] children in common, so aside from getting along for the … Continue reading “What does forgiveness look like when your adulterous (ex) spouse is unrepentant?”…

Inspirational Thought of the Day: It’s ok to be hurt, it is just what we do with that hurt that matters. Scripture of the Day: Matthew 6:14-15 “14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their […]…

Why did Jesus say God wouldn’t forgive us if we didn’t forgive each other?…

“You sound angry. I really think you need to forgive your spouse for cheating on you. Forgive and forget. After all, Jesus did that for you.” -Christian “Friend” to Faithful Spouse The most hurtful pieces of advice usually have a hint of truth as does this one. We do need to forgive our spouses … Continue reading ““You Need To Forgive Your Adulterous Spouse.””…

In exploring Christian beliefs, let's focus on how forgiveness and healing are closely linked. Forgiveness and healing are key concepts that contribute to understanding the Christian way of life. Forgiveness in Christianity means letting go of negative feelings like anger and bitterness towards others. On the other hand, healing often...…

The following are two chapters from my book The Road to Grace for Couples, a Workbook for Healing from Porn and Adultery. The workbook provides content and assignments for a couple to work through who are recovering from porn addiction and adultery. We begin with Read More…

“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” – Matthew 6:14-15, NIV Forgiveness is a rather difficult concept to grasp. But it is vital to grasp it as Jesus is … Continue reading “Forgiveness Looks Like For Me”…

A friend loves at all times… -Proverbs 17:17a, ESV The question of reconciliation is not limited to the relationship between the husband and wife when adultery has taken place. If you are at all like me, you opened you life to others who played instrumental roles either for the good or ill of the marriage. … Continue reading “Loves At All Times”…

I was sharing with my friend that I had been talking to a woman last week, who questioned how in the world could King David be considered such a man of God? “After all,” she said, R……

We have our reasons why we don’t forgive someone. These are valid reasons. But can you be open to a brave possibility? Maybe?…